Its normal to give up feelings for someone lalo n kung meron n tong iba. Di tama na magparamdam kpa ng feelings mo s isang taong may minmahal na. Una, nakakasira ito ng relasyon. Pangalawa, kung gusto mong lumaban, wla ka pa ring kasigaruduhan. Pangatlo, at ang pinakamasaklap, bka magmukha ka lang tanga dahil in the end ikaw p rin ang mawawalan.
May nabasa lng kc akong blog kanina. Pra kcng cnsabi ‘niya’ na ipinagtabuyan daw siya nung nangiwan s knya. Having his/her girl/boyfriend, obviously nmn n dpat lng na layuan sya nung guy/girl na dating nagmahal s knya for it will only cause awkwardness sa relasyon nila if that person stayed. Yun nga lng mali yung intindi niya. I just wanna defend the sides of those people who intentionally leave and give up their feelings for someone who is already taken. Walang masamang lumayo, makakbuti p nga yun s pag-mo-move on e. You may even become friends after. For the record, leaving is one of the efficient ways to forget the feelings u have for someone but it doesnt mean you also have to forget that person And in the right time, doors are open for the two of you to be friends again. It is when the two of you have deeply understand the real situation.
Para dun s mga taong nilayuan ng mga nagmahal s knila at kahit papano’y nagkaroon din naman ng pinagsamahan, wag niyo sanang masamain. Just think of it, mas makakasakit p kayo if you insisted of wanting that person to stay. Let them be, besides it’s for the good of your relationship with someone you chose to be with. Intindihin nyo nlng na its for the better for both parts. Bear with the consequences and be glad with your decisions. Maging masaya nlng sana kayo s isa’t isa.
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